The Relationship Quiz
How is your relationship? Take a moment to answer these questions.
🧠Scoring System:
Each answer earns:
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Yes = 1 point
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Sometimes = 0.5 points
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No = 0 points
👉 At the end, tally your total score and see which reflection zone you’re in below:
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🎯 Reflection Zones
🟢 0–4 points: Mostly Healthy
Your relationship appears to have a foundation of mutual respect, safety, and trust. Every relationship takes work, but yours seems to support your well-being. Keep checking in with yourself — your peace matters.
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🟡 5–8 points: Mixed Signals
There may be some concerning patterns. You might be feeling unsettled, confused, or unsure how to talk about certain things. You deserve a relationship where you feel safe, seen, and supported — always.
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🔴 9–15 points: Unhealthy or Abusive
Your answers show warning signs of emotional, verbal, or even physical abuse. If you feel afraid, stuck, or unsure of your options — you’re not alone. Wesley Shelter is here to support you confidentially and without judgment.
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📞 Wesley Shelter’s 24/7 Crisis Line: 252-291-2344
💜 You deserve safety. You deserve peace. You deserve to be free.