Domestic Violence Quiz

How is your relationship? Take a moment to answer these questions.  


Does your partner:

  • Embarass you with bad names and put-downs?

  • Look at you or act in ways that scare you?

  • Control what you do, who you see or talk to, or where you go?

  • Stop you from seeing or talking to friends or family?

  • Stop you from seeking or getting a job?

  • Take your money or Social Security, make you ask for money, or refuse to give you money?

  • Make all the decisions?

  • Tell you you’re a bad parent or threaten to take away or hurt your children?

  • Act like the abuse is no big deal, it’s your fault, or even deny doing it?

  • Destroy your property or threaten to kill your pets?

  • Intimidate your with guns, knives, or other weapons?

  • Shove you, slap you or hit you?

  • Force you to drop charges?

  • Threaten to commit suicide?

  • Threaten to kill you?


If you answered yes to some of these questions, it may be important for you to contact someone who can help you. Domestic Violence is serious and it is illegal. This is not the kind of situation that you can “fix” by yourself. Please do not hesitate to call Wesley Shelter for support, 252-291-2344. You deserve to be safe and we are here to help.

Thank You to the Family Violence Prevention Services Program, US DHHS, and NC Council for Women for financial support.

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